Today’s woman, outside of the guidance of a patriarchal hierarchy, is free to choose her own fate when it comes down to finding a mate. She wants an Alpha or Beta man but she settles for the Alpha or Beta for his provisions and protection for the time being. (First order of business for a woman is to get security in whatever form it takes.) She is with the Alpha or Beta until she gets an Alpha or Beta to impregnate her.
Once with the Alpha or Beta, she tests his strength by mistreating him. By this point in her life, she has manipulated so many for so long that she manipulates herself into utter confusion. She will test the Alpha or Beta with drama and mistreatment. When the Alpha or Beta won’t put up with that treatment and walks out of her life. She will attempt to save face by blaming the Alpha or Beta with a phrase like, “He didn’t know how to handle me”. It’s his fault and his fault only. She remains faultless. She returns to the Alpha or Beta that will service her needs like the servant she needs but does not want.
She secretly hates the Alpha or Beta when he is “nice” to her and resents being around a spineless servant. She cheats on him behind his back and blames him for “letting” or “allowing” her to cheat on him.
Her misguided perception of ?,?,? and ?s is loosely based on her ever changing feelings about that person. Feelings change as the wind changes and so does her mind.