Today’s woman, no longer restricted by patriarchal traditions, has the freedom to choose her own path in relationships. While she may be drawn to an Alpha male, she often settles for a Beta male temporarily, relying on his ability to provide and protect. Her main goal is to secure stability in whatever way she can. She stays with her partner until she finds someone with more resources or opportunities, who ultimately becomes the father of her children.
When she is with an Alpha male, she tests his strength by causing conflict and mistreating him. Over time, her manipulative behavior often becomes so habitual that even she is unsure of her intentions. She creates drama as a way to test the Alpha’s resolve. If he refuses to tolerate her treatment and decides to leave, she blames him entirely, saying, “He didn’t know how to handle me.” In her mind, she is never at fault.
When this happens, she returns to a Beta male, treating him more like a servant than a partner. Although he meets her needs, she secretly resents him for being overly kind or submissive, seeing him as weak. This resentment may lead her to cheat, and yet she blames him for “allowing” or “letting” it happen.
Her view of whether a man is an Alpha or Beta depends largely on her emotions, which are constantly changing. As her feelings shift, so does her judgment of his worth, making her perceptions unreliable and inconsistent.