She works hard to raise her financial status, as a result of her hard work, she finds fewer men that are above her level.
She works even harder to collect college diplomas only to find that even fewer men have the degrees that she has and the financial status as well.
The more she improves herself, the less likely she will find a man with a higher status.
She will never find a man with equal or lesser value than she perceives herself. She has no ideas of sharing of strengths. Her endless pursuits of her personal status and the obsession of others blinds her.